To you, my dear friend, who stays with him for a thousand and one reasons—but none of them are valid in my eyes…
To you, my dear friend, whom I love so much, I say: be strong and find the courage to leave him.
Find the strength to leave him for your own good and for your own happiness… Find the courage to say goodbye to him without living with regret…
Listen to what your heart is telling you; stop listening to that little voice on your shoulder that questions you day after day, telling you that you haven't really made up your mind and that it would be a mistake to leave…
Listen to your friends around you—they’re the ones who, from an outsider’s perspective, can see that you’re not happy and that you deserve so much better…
As your friend, I can’t fully understand what you’re going through, but I can tell you that from the outside, seeing you like this is hard… and all because of someone who doesn’t treat you the way you deserve to be treated. Everyone should be treated with respect and love, in a healthy and safe environment… You aren’t being treated that way, and it hurts me…
That person doesn’t deserve you—you’re too good for him… You don’t deserve what he’s doing to you; you deserve so much better than him. I really wish you could see this, open your eyes, and stop thinking about what life would be like without him and how your children would cope with a separation… From the outside, as a friend, and with all the love I have for you, you’ll get through this, and I guarantee you’ll be better off and happier… What he’s putting you through is inhumane and cruel… he doesn’t love you, even if he tells you he does. It’s just bullshit His words… you know, one day he’s nice, and the next day he tells you to get lost as if you were a stray puppy… it’s gratuitous cruelty that no one should have to endure
My dear friend, your children will be happier, too. A happy mom means happy babies. I'm telling you, it'll be a breeze. rough, but you'll get through this, and in a few months or a few years, you'll be proud that you made this decision for yourself, for your own happiness… and who knows, maybe a man who TRULY deserves you and who will treat you with all the love you deserve will come into your life…