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A Friendship That Isn't a Friendship Anymore
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A Friendship That Isn't a Friendship Anymore

In life, things change; we grow up, we evolve, we make decisions, we walk away, we start over, and so on… Unfortunately, not all friendships stand the test

A Pinch of Angel Dust
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A Pinch of Angel Dust

“To you, my little angel: you came here, and despite all the sadness in the world, you couldn’t stay.

A pretty disastrous attempt at wild camping.
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A pretty disastrous attempt at wild camping.

For those who know me, this isn’t some lame pun on my boyfriend’s and my daughter’s names. This is a life experience I want to forget and leave behind.

A Rose, From You to You
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A Rose, From You to You

The neighbor across the street is giving herself a pat on the back, because despite losing her husband last year in a motorcycle accident, she’s now able t

A Tribute to My Stepparent
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A Tribute to My Stepparent

When I was a child, my mom separated from my biological father, and we lived alone with her for a while. We had her all to ourselves.

Abortion
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Abortion

Abortion is still a very taboo subject. Many people are even opposed to the practice. In some countries, it’s actually illegal.

Am I a "pushover"?
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Am I a "pushover"?

Are you familiar with the English expression “pushover”? That’s what we in Quebec call someone who “lets people walk all over them.” I often think I’m one.

An Exceptional Godmother
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An Exceptional Godmother

As a kid, I used to whine for ages that having a sister 10 years younger than me was useless, and I didn’t see the point.

An Ode to a Healthy and Wonderful Friendship
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An Ode to a Healthy and Wonderful Friendship

When I was younger, I placed a lot of importance on the status of friendship; I felt this need to be someone for others without really understanding how it

Behind My Armor
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Behind My Armor

When I started talking to people around me about my son’s autism, I sort of became a go-to person.

Child of Divorce
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Child of Divorce

I am a child of divorce. It hurt. I was caught in the middle of arguments that had nothing to do with me. I witnessed hatred up close.

Choose Your Family
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Choose Your Family

There’s an old saying that goes, “You can’t choose your family.” To me, that saying has never made sense.

Damn beauty standards
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Damn beauty standards

I think my daughter is wonderful. At just five years old, she’s beautiful and has such a bubbly personality.

Do you have a "queen of the household" in…
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Do you have a "queen of the household" in…

Do you have a friend who deserves the title of “queen of the household”? Every time you visit, her house is spotless, and not a speck of dust is in sight.

Don't be afraid, my friend…
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Don't be afraid, my friend…

To you, my dear friend, who stays with him for a thousand and one reasons—but none of them are valid in my eyes… To you, my dear friend, whom I love so muc

Encounter
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Encounter

The day I saw you… I remember it as if it were yesterday: the day we met.

Finally Here
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Finally Here

I clearly remember the day I left my parents’ house. I’d had an argument with my mother, and although it’s a somewhat painful memory, it didn’t affect our

Forgive me for loving you less
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Forgive me for loving you less

My love, Forgive me for taking my time to come back to you. They say the heart is elastic; it’s true.

Friends sometimes forget about us
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Friends sometimes forget about us

Ever since I was born, I’ve lived in the beautiful Estrie region. When I met my boys’ father, I decided to move to Montérégie.

Getting Back on My Feet
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Getting Back on My Feet

For the past few years, I’ve been the kind of girl who tries to be as positive as possible in life. I won’t deny it—it’s hard.

Him
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Him

Some days, I could tell you that I married a perfect man, but other days I’d love to send him on vacation.

I'm still hoping for you
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I'm still hoping for you

It’s already been several weeks since fertility clinics closed so that the entire healthcare system could come together to tackle this virus that took us a

I've always wanted to write a rap song
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I've always wanted to write a rap song

We all have lots of dreams—some realistic, others a little crazy. As for me, I’ve always wanted to write a rap song. I picture Loud with my own words.

If only you knew.
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If only you knew.

My big boy. Today you’re 12 years old. When I was told about your diagnosis, I thought that as the years went by, it would get easier and easier.

June 15, 2019
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June 15, 2019

And yes, it’s already been a whole year! It was difficult, special, wonderful, and full of ups and downs, but we got through it together, as a team.

Large Family 2.0
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Large Family 2.0

What is a large family? It’s hard to say, because everyone views motherhood or fatherhood differently.

Lavender Day!
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Lavender Day!

“Founded in 2008 by Cassidy Megan, a young woman from Halifax, Lavender Day aims to encourage people around the world to support the cause of epilepsy.

Let's give it a shot
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Let's give it a shot

Today, I’m talking to you. My boyfriend, my best friend, my rock. We met several years ago, young and carefree, with no idea where we’d end up today.

Letter to My Best Friend
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Letter to My Best Friend

You’ve been a part of my life for over 15 years. Our paths drifted apart for a while, but that only strengthened our friendship—it became even more solid.

Living More Simply
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Living More Simply

Even before I watched Marie Kondo’s episodes on Netflix, I’d already been thinking about living more simply.

Long-Short: It's Been a While
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Long-Short: It's Been a While

Lately, we’ve been hearing a lot about friendships that are falling apart, changing, or ending without us really knowing why.

My Bad Friend
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My Bad Friend

Without warning, she just showed up at my place—without even announcing herself, without even asking for my permission, and without ever paying her share o

My beautiful little girl!
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My beautiful little girl!

In a month, you’ll be blowing out your second candle. That’s right! Already! You’re still too little to realize what kind of world we live in.

My best friend is a dog
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My best friend is a dog

Not too long ago, I lost my dog, Enzo. This isn’t the first time I’ve lost a dog. Sometimes they’ve come back. Other times, I’ve lost them forever.

My boyfriend isn't a Kodak Kid
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My boyfriend isn't a Kodak Kid

My boyfriend hates having his picture taken. I get it—I’m the same way. It took everything we had to get through our pregnancy photo shoot.

My cousin
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My cousin

My cousin, as I write these words, my heart is heavy… my heart aches… my heart cries out in frustration… Life is so fragile!

My dad is an ally.
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My dad is an ally.

As I write this, it is December 6, 2020. It’s a significant day, full of memories and powerful emotions for me, my family, but especially for my dad.

My father
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My father

My father doesn't love me. That's really the impression I have of him, and my partner has the same impression.

My friends whom I miss
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My friends whom I miss

My friends, I’m writing you this little love letter today. I can’t name all of you here, but I hope you’ll recognize yourselves in my words.

My friends, my family.
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My friends, my family.

To me, my friends are my second family. I don’t think I’m the only one who sees it that way.

My screen—a whole world of illusions!
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My screen—a whole world of illusions!

A couple in 2019 is just disposable love. We love each other, we use each other, we wear each other out, and then we toss each other aside once we get tire

My Virtual Friends
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My Virtual Friends

One day—a very gloomy day—I met two girls… “Met” is a big word… we connected in a support group for moms who had just lost a baby.

New Year’s Day
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New Year’s Day

5-4-3-2-1…… There we go—the countdown is over! It’s time to take stock, and time for wishes as well… This is the time when we look back on the path we’ve t

On the Other Side of the World
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On the Other Side of the World

Sometimes, life forces us to make difficult choices. A few years ago, I decided to leave everything I knew behind.

Our Not-So-Perfect Story
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Our Not-So-Perfect Story

We’re that couple. You know, the one that’s been together for ages. The couple that seems almost perfect on the surface.

Our us
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Our us

I’ll always remember that night! It was right at the beginning of our relationship, and I felt the need to explain myself, to express myself—and you were t

Over a cup of coffee
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Over a cup of coffee

My friend, sometimes I miss you. We used to be inseparable. The days we spent together to School, the weekend, or the park just weren't enough.

Raising Children Far Away
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Raising Children Far Away

When my daughter was 9 months old, I decided to move to Alberta to be with my boyfriend.

Rum and Coke and one night
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Rum and Coke and one night

Friday night. It happens every week. That night when I escape my dull life, my routine, my everyday existence.

Sacrifices
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Sacrifices

An Ode to You, Dear Dad! You listen as I list, loud and clear, the sacrifices I’ve had to make with the arrival of our son and our second child on the way.

Saying Yes to the Dress
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Saying Yes to the Dress

My partner and I had already had THE conversation about marriage. We preferred to wait until we had our own home.

So what now?
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So what now?

When you’re in your early twenties and Aunt Lise asks you what you want to do when you grow up, you tell her that your main goal is to be happy by having a

Social Media and the Family
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Social Media and the Family

I went to see a comedian yesterday who really made me laugh, but who also got me thinking about social media and family.

Sometimes, I'd like to go far away.
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Sometimes, I'd like to go far away.

It's not that I don't like my life. It's not that I don't love my family, my job, or my friends. But sometimes, I'd like to go far away.

Take responsibility, man!
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Take responsibility, man!

One day, you planted a little seed in your girlfriend’s belly, and 40 weeks later, she popped her head out.

The "Friend Zone"
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The "Friend Zone"

Ah! The “friend zone.” So often hated during my single days, but so much appreciated today, now that I’m in a relationship.

The Age Gap in Love
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The Age Gap in Love

When we first got together, my boyfriend was 31 and I was 20. I was a young adult who was still a bit naive, and he was a man who’d already been through a

The Anger Stage
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The Anger Stage

It’s well known that when grieving, there are several stages to go through. This isn’t my first time.

The Calendar War
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The Calendar War

You know, in life, I’m a pretty organized girl who has a bad habit of planning everything down to the quarter-second.

The Countdown
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The Countdown

It’s already been a few weeks since we reluctantly started your final countdown. No one lives forever—I know that.

The Frustrated Movie-Goer
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The Frustrated Movie-Goer

I really enjoy taking the family to the movies every now and then. With as many of us as there are, it ends up being expensive, so we try to take advantage

The King with Dirty Socks
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The King with Dirty Socks

Once upon a time, there was a beautiful and intelligent queen who was searching for her family. She searched for them actively, with calm and serenity.

The next generation for our family.
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The next generation for our family.

In our lives, a threat looms over our heads! Illness, accidents, death… yet we don’t really have to worry about them, because we live our lives without bei

The Oscar for Best Big Brother
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The Oscar for Best Big Brother

My tall, blond guy with a tender heart. You're probably the most sensitive little boy I've ever met.

The Rank-and-File Soldier
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The Rank-and-File Soldier

You met your man—true, unconditional love. Knowing he’s in the military, you tell yourself it won’t be that bad.

The sacrosanct practice of ear piercing
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The sacrosanct practice of ear piercing

It’s easy to underestimate how important certain debates can become. To us, a choice might seem trivial and inconsequential, while to the other person it’s

This one’s for you, my friend!
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This one’s for you, my friend!

To you, my friend, who overthinks everything. Who asks yourself a million questions—or even doubts yourself all the time.

Those friends who drift away.
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Those friends who drift away.

You used to go shopping, see movies, and go out for lunch together. You talked every day, and to you, nothing could have foreshadowed that life would pull

To the one who left us too soon…
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To the one who left us too soon…

Finding out you’re unexpectedly pregnant is scary. You think to yourself, “Oh my gosh, how am I going to tell my boyfriend?” You stress out right up until

To you, who came out of nowhere...
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To you, who came out of nowhere...

In life, we don’t choose who we meet or who crosses our path. Sometimes they’re good people, and sometimes they’re bad.

Unable to Let You Go
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Unable to Let You Go

It’s no longer just a path leading away; our paths now lie in two completely different places, at opposite ends of the spectrum.

Understanding the other side of our family.
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Understanding the other side of our family.

When I chose to build a life with this man, to make him my family and my everything, I must have suspected that there would be another side to our family:

What about us?
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What about us?

Another one. Again. Yet another couple that fell apart under the weight of everyday life combined with an atypical, frantic pace.

What if…
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What if…

In exactly one week, it will have been 12 years since you left us, my dearest friend. Twelve long years without you.

What's Best for Us
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What's Best for Us

I’ve been wondering for a while now what would be best for you, for me, for us, for our family life—for everything.

When chance turns everything upside down…
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When chance turns everything upside down…

A coincidence—a simple coincidence—that turned everything upside down… When we first met, we were young, carefree, and certainly not ready for life as a co

Winning the Jackpot
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Winning the Jackpot

Do you ever dream about winning a huge amount of money in the lottery?

You, the mom of a large family
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You, the mom of a large family

You’ve always wanted a big family. Or maybe life just gave it to you. Whether you’ve been planning it since you were 7 or it just happened—one partner and

You, too
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You, too

Summer 2002—you’re riding through town, both feet firmly planted on the footrests of the hottest guy in school’s BMX bike.